The plot of The Holiday has always appealed to a certain temperament: the seduction of slipping into someone else’s life for a week, adopting their view from the kitchen sink and enjoying the discreet privilege of moving through a neighbourhood where no one knows your name – unless, by chance you befriend an award-winning screenwriter and spend an evening honouring a lifetime of his work. In reality, the charm is simpler – the pleasure of anonymity, borrowed space and the brief permission to reimagine yourself.
On TikTok, two young creatives have found their own contemporary take on that fantasy. What began as a single video – Lohanny, in New York, asking whether anyone might like to swap apartments – quickly gathered momentum. Among the responses was a comment from Marie, who offered up her Notting Hill flat with the casual ease of someone suggesting a coffee order. The internet did the rest, propelling the pair into a viral experiment in transatlantic living and turning an impulsive exchange into a modern-day home-swap story watched by millions.
We spoke to Marie about how the idea unfolded, what it was like stepping into a stranger’s home on the other side of the world.
What first drew you to the idea of swapping homes and cities with Lohanny?
I’ve always felt inspired by New York and loved every single trip I’ve taken there. It has always been a dream to experience living in the city, even if just for a short time. I truly love New York! A couple of years ago, I met a girl from New York online and we planned to do a home swap back then, but it fell through because of work commitments. After that, I kind of forgot about the idea until now.
How did the swap come about? Was it spontaneous or something you’d been dreaming about for a while?
I was sitting at home scrolling through TikTok one evening when I came across Lohanny’s video asking to swap with someone in London. Not thinking much of it, I left a little comment suggesting my flat in Notting Hill (the best part of the city, though I might be biased). I hadn’t seen much of Lohanny’s content before, so it really felt like this video was meant to find me. Her community loved the Notting Hill idea and suddenly my phone was flooded with notifications and supportive comments. That led to me sharing my flat online, connecting with Lohanny, and making the whole thing happen
What were your first impressions stepping into Lohanny‘s apartment?
It instantly felt so welcoming, like a home away from home. Lohanny had left me a sweet welcome sign and the atmosphere felt warm and personal, especially after such a long journey. It honestly felt like a dream come true.
Were there any small details – a book, something left on the counter – that told you something about Lohanny before you’d even met?
Absolutely! Her entire bookshelf was filled with books I’ve also read, which immediately made me feel like we had a lot in common. The little décor details and her art supplies also showed me she’s a very creative person. Through our chats, we quickly realised we share many similar interests.
Did you find yourselves adopting new rituals or routines while living in your swapped city?
I fully embraced the Lohanny experience. She left me a list of her favourite places, so I tried as many as possible – I even had her go-to taco order at her local spot and most mornings started at one of her favourite coffee shops. Overall, I tried to channel her confidence and outgoing energy while exploring New York.
How would you describe the aesthetic of your own apartment and how does it reflect who you are?
I would describe my apartment as eclectic. I’ve lived and travelled all over the world and brought home little mementos from everywhere. I love mixing classic and modern design, like pairing a big gold ornate mirror with my silver drip metal candle holders from Pols Potten. I’m definitely more of a maximalist than a minimalist. Especially living in the city and working from home, I like being surrounded by plants and objects that make the space feel alive and inspiring.
And what about the Lohanny‘s? Was there anything about their space that surprised or inspired you?
I loved how Lohanny’s art takes up such a central space in her apartment. I paint too, but I usually keep my supplies stored away, which makes it harder to create spontaneously. Seeing her art everywhere reminded me how important it is to have creativity visible and accessible in my daily life. I want to make more time for painting again.
Finally, what does home mean to you now?
Home to me has two meanings. On one hand, it’s my safe space where I can recharge, surrounded by all the little things that bring me joy. On the other hand, home is also about people. Growing up in Germany, I know I’ll always have that home home where my family is, a place I can return to no matter what to be with the people I love most.
